I have had a smoking fetish for at least 29 years. Possibly longer. Other than the women whom I have dated, the therapists I have seen, and my private, abandoned diary, I have never shared my story. Because this is anonymous, I guess it could be said that I am not really sharing the story here either; at least not in a way that makes me vulnerable. Nonetheless, it is a form of sharing, because I am opening myself up to comments, and also providing my experiences as a potential avenue through which you can evaluate and accept your own fetish.
So let me tell you what my "mission statement" will be for this blog:
- To relate the history of my smoking fetish, as far back as I can remember
- To talk about the role it has played in my life, and in my relationships
- To talk about my feelings around the fetish
- To discuss the role the internet has played in my acceptance (and indulgence)
- To talk about types of material available online, and my preferences
- To talk about different segments and variations of the fetish
And let me tell you what are specific "non-goals" for this blog:
- I do not intend to post or repost photos or videos; this could change
- I will not reveal the identity of anyone from "my world"
- I will probably not engage in battle with detractors of the topic
Now that we have that out of the way, let the story begin.
Just discovered the blog for the first time - boy am I stoked. As I am a big sharer, you will probably be reading many comments from me as I tackle this huge body of writing --- WOW! Yes. Dig it!
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